Best Books for Grads

Best Books for Grads

If there is magic in the universe, books are the evidence! My greatest pleasure is sharing my love of books, and I can talk books all day long, even with complete strangers.

So when it comes to gifting, there’s no surprise that my #1 “go-to” is of the literary variety. Is there an occasion for which for which a thoughtfully chosen book isn’t the perfect gift? Weddings, get-wells, birthdays, new babies, even an expression of sympathy…a book is an unforgettable remembrance that not only marks the moment, but also acknowledges something unique about the recipient. It’s both an expression of affection and, an affirmation of who we are, or aspire to become.

There are hundreds of packing/purchasing lists for the college-bound and yes, they really do need laptops, sheets, multi-plug power cords and a bag to hold their laundry. But let’s be real, the most important gear a young person takes to college is his or her mind, and you can help get it primed for the experience with a well-chosen book.

With seven, first-generation mentees heading off to college this year, here are seven of the top titles on my shopping list. Something perfect for every type/style of grad.

The Naked Roommate: And 101 Other Issues You Might Run Into In College.

Harlen Cohen.

A perennial favorite, this one tackles all of the usual questions and a few of the “too embarrassed to ask” variety as well. In 10 years of gifting this one, I’ve yet to have a grad not love it.

 

The Freshman Survival Guide: Soulful Advice for Studying, Socializing, and Everything in Between.  Nora Bradbury-Haehl.  

Plenty of practical advice for the freshmen year, framed within questions of faith, service and one’s own spiritual journey.  

 

Been there, Should’ve  Done That. Tips for making the most of college. Suzette Taylor.

“Small bite” tips in a relaxed, easy-read format.

 

Letters to a Young Poet.  Rainer Maria Rilke

Timeless classic that inspires us to know our own heart.

 

Assume The Worst. The Graduation Speech You’ll Never Hear. Carl Hiassen

Snarky and fun – just like the books many of remember as young readers. And a lot of good advice, too.

 

Build Your Dream Network. Forging Powerful Connections in a Hyper-connected World J. Kelly Hoey

How to build a network is one of the most important skills we can help a young person develop, especially embedding it into the college experience.

 

The Good Vibes Coloring Book. Thaneeya McArdle

A fun gift with a subtle message of support. The changes and pressures of the transition to college can be stressful. A little doodling/coloring might just be the right stress buster when it’s needed most. Full of playful images and positive messages.

 

Out with the bath water

Out with the bath water

 It’s time to throw out the baby.

Over the past few weeks, I’ve had to deal with students coming to my workshops and events toting crying plastic dolls all geared out with bottles, blankies and a car seat.  Just as we’re tucking into a really great discussion, the artificial tot starts to scream, the eye rolling, groaning, and laughing commence, and everything screeches to a halt while the terrorizing toy is attended to.

You know the program, right?

Teen girls (Yep – just girls) are assigned one of these faux newborns for a short period of time – typically a week. The battery operated bundle of joy uses wireless programming to track and report on the care it receives from its teen parent;  diaper changes, feeding, mishandling actions, (which we can assume to mean ignoring, shaking or dropping ) and time in a car seat etc.

The theory is that given this short inconvenience (one that the teen knows will end in a few days) a young lady will abstain from sexual activity. Lesson learned. Teen pregnancy problem solved.  It could be called “Annoyed Sexless.”

The interesting twist to this theory is that there is almost no evidence that this approach works.  In fact it might make the problem worse.  In a 2016 study, girls who went through the baby reality program were 51% more likely to become pregnant teens than their peers who didn’t go through the program. This held true even when the researchers made allowances for factors like socioeconomic status.

Not the magic doll you were looking for?

There is no question that helping teens transition into a productive, healthy adulthood is a daunting challenge. Adolescents get more sexually transmitted diseases than any other age group, they get in trouble with the law more than any other age group; and when they drive cars, they drive faster than any other age. But if we’re really going to improve outcomes for the generation that will manage our Social Security and care for us in our old age, we’ve got to do better than these synthetic polymer newborns.

What works?

 

  • Education that encourages both abstinence and contraceptive use.  And no, educating a teen about sex does not lead to promiscuity. According to Johns Hopkins University researchers, “Young women who have had sex education appear less likely than those who have not to become pregnant. “
  • Service learning and other approaches that engage young people constructively in their communities and schools.  Why? It builds empathy; the ability to think about how one’s actions can impact others – and a key attribute in good decision-making.
  • Accessible services like health care, academic assistance, sex education, performing arts and individual sports programs, and employment assistance.
  • Relationships – with pro-social peers, and with adults who care about them.
  • And my favorite:  Inspiring kids to find their passion and run toward their interests rather than scare tactics designed to get them to run away from taking control of their own futures.

 

P.S.  Way back in the day, my fellow seniors and I were required to take a class called “Adult Living” that included a low-tech version of this charade. By carrying around an uncooked egg and returning it unscathed, we would miraculously be inspired to abstinence.  Of course by then we had already been experimenting with “adult living,” and it’s quite a leap from the dozen back-up eggs it took to get an “A” to having knowledge sufficient to being healthy and safe.  After almost forty years isn’t it about time for something that really works?

Fast Flight Friday – May 31, 2019

Fast Flight Friday – May 31, 2019

Ah, Fridays and the promise of a little unstructured free time ahead. Sure, there will always be the laundry, but the great thing about the weekend is those little slivers of time that aren’t completely mapped out. If you’re seeking a little something for those little slivers…..

Fly to Mars. Sort of.

Even though it will be years before the first humans set foot on Mars, NASA is collecting names (to be stenciled on chips) to send to the Red Planet with its Mars 2020 rover. Here’s how to hitch a ride:  https://mars.nasa.gov/participate/send-your-name/mars2020/

I love history. Can’t get enough – especially when there is some new discovery or insight I have yet to learn about. It’s easy to while away the minutes (and hours if you’re not careful) on All That’s Interesting a neat site that has good pics and just right article length. They have science and news, too. https://allthatsinteresting.com/

Trivia, quizzes of all kinds, and hearing about interesting people? This is one of my fave trivia podcasts to enjoy when I want my mind to soar free but I still have to drive, mow or mop. Ask Me Another from NPR. https://www.npr.org/programs/ask-me-another/?showDate=2019-05-24

Be Fearlessly You.

 

Julie

Life On Mars by Jon Agee

Life On Mars by Jon Agee

Life On Mars by Jon Agee

Picture book for ages approximately 4-8

Published January 1, 2017

Young children are curious and creative in their quest to understand the universe, and Jon Agee has drawn an absolutely charming story of the ageless question, “is anybody out there?” 

In LIFE ON MARS, a young astronaut lands on Mars in search of life. Our fearless little explorer sets off from his spaceship with a box of cupcakes (a gift for whomever or whatever he might encounter) and starts his trek across the beautifully drawn, desolate landscape of the red planet.

As he hikes along, what he can’t see is the tall, pointy-eared Martian hovering in the background, and we are “in on the joke” as it follows the boy on his quest. The next details of the story include a yellow flower and the aforementioned cupcakes, however, if the two meet is for you to discover! 

Obviously, evidence does not support the presence of a giant cuddly creature on Mars (or yellow flowers) and that may be a problem for some. Yet evidence did not support the veracity of the adventures of Buck Rogers or the fantastic voyages of Jules Verne, which inspired many of the early astronauts and NASA engineers to pursue the stars.

For myself, I love the whimsical adventure story – particularly the lovely detail of our voyager packing cupcakes to offer in greeting. The book also subtly delivers the message that there is power and satisfaction in pursuing the answers to your most important questions, which if instilled early, can inspire a life-long learner.

Fast Flight Friday – May 17, 2019

Fast Flight Friday – May 17, 2019

I keep hearing forecasts for a rainy, indoor weekend ahead. Guess I could clean or organize something, dig into one project or another. Or maybe I’ll …

  • Chill with some music history. At Radiooooo.com you pick a year, a country, and the site returns a song from that time and place. It’s like traveling the world while taking a dance-break.

 

  • Bang on the drum all day? Created by designer Jono Brandel, Patatap.com is a “portable animation and sound kit” for your keyboard. Any key from A to Z will produce different sounds with accompanying motion graphics. And, when you’re ready to change it up – just press the space bar to get all new sounds and graphics for each key.

And, some ideas from Teachers First for using Patatap in the classroom

 

 

Be fearlessly you!

 

Julie

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